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Healing from Trauma

12/5/2020

 
​Hello friends!

In this month's blog of encouragement I want to share some revelatory insight, practical steps and answer questions within this blog that you may have about this topic titled, "Healing from Trauma."

As I write these monthly words of encouragement they are also coupled with the prophetic words that are being released from this ministry. In past seasons and even now there has been so many battles, resistance and onslaught. Through this many have been emotionally crippled by pain, hurt and trauma. This has not only been a season of many battles, but one of transition and radical change. Change that has been for the good although it has been painful. Many even in this season have been getting deep refreshing, rejuvenated and deep healing. Healing from the pain and trauma from so many long standing battles.

I want to share with you and touch briefly on the topic of 'trauma' and how you can heal from trauma and even dealing with the trauma. In this season many have dealt with circumstances, situations, and people that has brought much pain and trauma. We have also entered a season where we will season so much healing, restoration of peace and deep rest. We have truly crossed over into a new season where many will see fulfilment of many promises. 

In these situations that have happened to you it has caused hope deferred, discouragement, disappointment, sorrow and even grief. It is time to move forward from the past, heal from the pain and trauma and move into the new thing that the Lord is doing. Otherwise, you will stay stuck in the trauma, rehearsing things, becoming bitter, angry or even resentful to the person or situation and unable to move forward into all that the Lord is releasing many into right now. Forgiveness and repentance must happen so you can get your emotions back in order, mind healed, and your heart completely restored. He is recalibrating hearts to feel again, not one of pain but of joy. To experience joy in the heart again for the new season and the new things that the Lord is bringing into your life.

When you get healed in your soul it stabilizes your mind and the anxiety, fear, confusion, chaos and the scattering stops. Like the Lord once told me he puts us back together like humpty dumpty. Yes, the Lord has a sense of humor even in the midst of our pain as He is the only one who knows how to turn pain into joy!


The Lord has being doing such deep refreshing, restoration and healing in this season in you from all the trauma so that you are able to walk into manifestation of the breakthroughs and fulfillment of promises through, "Healing from Trauma."

Questions you may have pondered on about trauma:
  • Why do I have trauma? Trauma is an indicator that you got hurt in your heart and the enemy knew where to hit your innermost being from a situation that happened that involved others. This is something that could have derived from child hood and situation happened years later that caused that trauma wound to be triggered and to resurface. Or it could have been from a recent situation that hurt you.
  • Where is the trauma coming from?  The trauma is coming from your soul which consists of your mind, will, emotions and our psychological being. Having trauma wounds in your soul is an indicator that you need emotional and mental healing from a wound or wounds that inside your soul. That wound in your soul came from either a situation or circumstance that involved another person or people that could have been from child hood or a recent situation.
  • How do you keep from being traumatized again? You want to stay trauma free by getting your heart completely healed then guarding your heart from further pain or trauma. Your heart is connected to your innermost being that concerns everything of who you are in Christ. Anytime a situation happens where someone is involved that is already hurt, or traumatized themselves never take it personal or get offended. Know there are things going on with that person or them that they need to heal from and what is happening with them is reflection of what is going inside their heart not yours. You can get caught in the cross-fire of their unstable emotions and get hurt, so guarding your heart is key. You will want to keep your heart guarded, use wisdom, and have healthy boundaries with circumstances and people.

Here are 13 practical steps to consider about healing from trauma:
  1. Healing can be instant or happen over time some wounds are deeper than others and some wounds have layers to it.
  2. Don't rush the healing process you want your soul to get completely healed and be whole.
  3. Rehearsing things causes torment. Don't hold on, dwell or reiterate or rehearse things of the past, you have to let go of the hurt and pain as this delays the healing and deliverance process from the very thing that wounded you.
  4. When someone hurts you don't get offended you must forgive, let it go and release the hurt.
  5. Don't carry other peoples problems, issues, or warfare because it isn't for you to carry it. The burden is the Lords. You will get entangled if you do and think it is your stuff when it is the other persons stuff.
  6. Keep healthy boundaries with toxic or narcissistic people, you will save yourself a lot of time, energy, strength, and sanity of mind.
  7. Don't compromise your walk, your time, or your heart into situations with people who are drawn and feed off of drama, abuse or constant dysfunctional cycles.
  8. When trauma does happen with people or circumstances the Lord uses this to expose something that is unhealthy for you, to break cycles and curses, and to severe and untangle you from it.
  9. When you go through pain and trauma it is actually used to make you stronger in the very area that your heart was once vulnerable to.
  10. The enemy will always go for the tender spots of your heart like;  your parents, family or children and use it to wound, hurt and throw blows at you to get you offended so that your prayer life and walk with the Lord is weakened.
  11. He will always target the closest to your heart to wound you. This is a demonic tactic to take you down and to make you ineffective.
  12. The enemy will purposely send people and situations that carry or bring Legion into your life to literally through you off, derail, or delay assignments, alignments and destiny fulfillment.
  13. You will stay longer and stuck in the hurt, pain, or trauma if you don't let go and forgive. Ask for the Lord's grace to help you heal some pain is deeper than others and can be hard to heal from, this is where His grace comes in to help you.
Some scriptures for you to mediate and renew your mind on:

Proverbs 4:23 "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.

Matthew 11:28-29 "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls."

Mark 5:15 "When they came to Jesus, they saw the man who had been possessed by the legion of demons, sitting there, dressed and in his right mind; and they were afraid."

Malachi 4:2 "But unto you who revere and worshipfully fear My name shall the Sun of Righteousness arise with healing in His wings and His beams, and you shall go forth and gambol like calves [released] from the stall and leap for joy.


Prayer for you to pray, declare and decree:

Lord, I humble myself before you and I thank you for your word released, insight, revelation and wisdom. I ask Lord that you shine your glory light like is says in Malachi 4:2 into every part of heart that is wounded and where there is hurt, pain, or trauma that needs healing. Lord give me the grace to let the things go that have been difficult and painful for me. I forgive anyone who has hurt me that has caused those wounds in my soul from any traumatic event or circumstance that has happened in my life and I repent if I hurt anyone out of that hurt or wound. Lord forgive me if I have become angry, bitter, resentful because of the hurt. Reveal every hurt, pain and trauma so that it can be healed right now in the light of your glory. I thank you that my heart is being healed and my mind is being put back in its right place as you have intended and designed my mind to function and operate. Thank you that where my heart was shattered, broken, traumatized, fear, anxiety, in chaos and confusion is being restored instantaneously right now by the healing light of your glory. As my heart, soul, and mind are getting healed Legion and his cohorts are leaving and will have no more right to torment me from the hurt, pain or trauma. The scattered parts of my heart are being healed and restored, cognition and thinking processes are being restore, my nervous system and every brain function is being restored, and that tangible healing is happening in my physical body and manifesting right now as your glory light heals my soul. Thank you Lord you are healing every part of my heart where I will no longer be triggered by trauma. Seal every part of my heart in your blood that has been healed so that the enemy will no longer find a landing place in my heart to bring torment or to pull me back into captivity or bondage in Jesus name Amen!

Let this word bless, encourage, bring insight, activate and impart into you for the month that we are in and to move forward in healing!

Grace and Love to you all!

~Lorilei

The Timing of the Lord

11/7/2020

 
Hello friends!

In this month's blog of encouragement I want to share some revelatory insight, practical steps and answer questions within this blog that you may have about this topic titled, "The Timing of the Lord."

As I write these monthly words of encouragement they are also coupled with the prophetic words that are being released from this ministry. I have felt this strongly for some time now and even more so coming into this month. That in this month of November, I really felt that we are moving more into the perfect timing of the Lord. That it will be so strategic, being at the right place at the right time and into His impeccable timing.

I want to share with you and touch on the topic of 'timing.' I think this topic can be a challenging one to talk about because I believe many us get so discourage at times because we don't understand the timing of the Lord. We want things to happen now or think it is going to happen now, or think we know when it is going to happen when in reality we are not even ready for it to happen.

The Lord has to thoroughly prepare you not only for His perfect timing but also for what you are going to step into especially concerning His promises and fulfillment 
in, "The Timing of the Lord."

Our timing is not the Lord's timing and it never will be. He has the most impeccable timing of things transpiring and coming together, it is a matter of waiting and trusting in Him and His timing. A lot of times we get sidetrack, distracted or impatient which causes delay. Ever heard that saying, 'going around the mountain' well that pretty much sums it up. You will wait longer than you should have waited and go around that mountain again. It reminds of the story of Abraham and Sarah. Sarah was impatient and came up with her own plan. She wanted a son and was tired of waiting and so she bore Ishmael, which was not the promise God had made to Abraham and Sarah. The promise of Isaac did come to pass just as the Lord said and it was on time and in His timing. Impatience causes delay. If, you are impatient then the Lord has to work in your heart still to prepare you. It is also a sign you are not in His timing yet.

It is imperative that we wait on the Lord and for His timing and not get frustrated, impatient, or discourage in the process of waiting.


Questions you may have pondered on about His timing:
  • How do you know if you are in alignment with His timing?  There is always warfare prior to coming into His timing. This is one of the key indicators that you are coming into alignment in the heavenly realms with His timing. If, you have had tremendous amounts of warfare up until things started syncing and lining up then you know the enemy was fighting against the alignment to come into His timing. Distractions is also another indicator, as distractions are the opposite to what is really happening behind the scenes and the enemy wants you to be meddled with the distraction than to focus on what is happening and what is about to come to pass. Things will start coming to pass that He has spoken when you are in alignment with His timing.
  • How do you align with the timing of the Lord? By yielding to His ways, His leading, and what His will is which is to bring things to pass in His timing. The biggest thing I have seen is when impatience comes in then we miss not only what the Lord is doing but what He wants to bring to pass. You have to yield any form of control and let go of how you think and when it is going to happen. It is in that moment, the Lord suddenly brings something to past because your eyes were on Him and not the situation, circumstance or promise. 
  • What is the purpose of waiting on His timing? So that you don't mess things up when things do come to pass. See while you are in the process, preparation and refiners fire the Lord is removing and dealing with things of the heart that will later hinder or even mess things up because of those wounded areas that the Lord needed to heal and deliver you from. He doesn't have you wait because of not wanting to fulfill His promise, He has you wait so He can prepare you for the fulfillment of His promises. In the waiting, the Lord brings you closer and more intimate in your relationship with Him which has great purpose.

Here are 5 practical steps to consider about His timing:
  1. Don't give up if you experience a lot of warfare, press through, break through and endure. Let the Lord have His perfect work in you even while you are in the warfare.
  2. Distractions will come, stay focused on the Lord and what He is telling and leading you do regardless how of it looks.
  3. Don't get impatient while waiting or try to make things happen yourself, it will cost you greatly later on.
  4. Let go of how, when and where you think it is going to happen and know He has a set appointed time for it to happen.
  5. Trust that His timing is perfect and better than your timing will ever be. Trust and be at peace that the Lord has to orchestrate many things and intertwine them together while you wait, this is a good thing as you want the best when the Lord does bring His promises to pass in His perfect timing.
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Some scriptures for you to mediate and renew your mind on:

Ecclesiastes 3:1 "Yet God has made everything beautiful for its own time. He has planted eternity in the human heart, but even so, people cannot see the whole scope of God’s work from beginning to end."

Acts 1:7 'He said to them: “It is not for you to know the times or dates the Father has set by his own authority.'

Habakkuk 2:3 'For the vision awaits an appointed time; it testifies of the end and does not lie. Though it lingers, wait for it, since it will surely come and will not delay.'

Prayer for you to pray, declare and decree:

Lord, thank you for bringing me into alignment with your perfect timing. If, I have been impatient, frustrated, or discouraged from waiting Lord I repent so that any door to the enemy that was opened because of that is now closed and that peace of God will invade and surround my atmosphere. Remove anything or anyone that would hinder or delay your timing. Do what you need to do in me to prepare and position me for your perfect timing. Prepare my heart, my mind and my emotions so that I don't go ahead of you Lord. But, that I will wait patiently, trusting you and walk in your perfect peace of knowing you have all things in your hands including your appointed times for my life. Let the alignment of Heaven come into my life, atmosphere, and all that surrounds me. Let every demonic assignment, assault, plot and scheme of the enemy sent to try and destroy, delay or hinder your timing be completely dismantled and broken. Send your angels to help bring me into what you have planned and orchestrated in this season and time in Jesus name, Amen!

Let this word bless, encourage, bring insight, activate and impart into you for the month we are in and how to move forward into His impeccable timing!

Grace and Love to you all!

A Place Called Transition

10/3/2020

 
Hello friends!

In this month's blog of encouragement I want to share some revelatory insight, practical steps and answer questions within this blog that you may have about this topic titled, "A Place Called Transition." 

In this month of October I really felt the Lord that this month is not only a month of acceleration, alignment, and refreshing, but also a month where we are transitioning from one place to another. Many are about to find themselves into their new assignment and into the new place after the dust settles. I'm going to unpack this topic in this article just enough for you to be able to absorb, marinate and sit on the word.

I want to share with you and touch on the topic of 'transition.' What do you do when you are in transition? What to expect during transition? What is the Lord doing in you while you are in transition? Many of us have probably been in transition one too many times. Transition is good thing as it also signifies growth, advancement and promotion. You are moving from one place emotionally, physically, spiritually and sometimes geographically.  

Transition isn't always easy and it can be uncomfortable because your not sure what is all transpiring, what's your next place and when is it over.  Sometimes it seems like it is carrying on but it all depends on what season you were in before you went into transition and where you are going.

For example, if you were in the wilderness for 3 years it may take a little while longer to transition out of that place because you were in it for so long. The Lord has to deal with the wilderness and captivity mentality, alongside bring your mind and emotions out of battle mode and back into normalcy. Because when you are in the wilderness you are going through lots of processes, refiners fire and lots of battles. You have to emotionally and physically recover from all of that and from going through it for so long. The Lord has to gently reprogram your mind, restore cognitive thinking, and even bring your nervous system back into alignment from being in a long continuous arduous battles and resistance.

One thing I have learned that I share with others is to surrender to the Lord and let Him have his way, let Him do what He needs to do and don't fight the process it will be more detriment for you if you do. Once, you allow Him to finish what He needs to do then you enter, 
A Place Called Transition.

That is how you also know that you have completed that level per say and now you are moving into the next level. Transition is also another indicator that you have went through whatever processes you needed to go through at that level so you can now handle the promotion, upgrade and the next level that you are going into. The Lord has to refresh you emotionally, mentally and physically before you step into your next.

Questions you may have pondered on about transition:
  • What do you do when you are in transition? Be patient and don't rush the process! Stay aligned with the Lord in what He is saying, leading and doing. 
  • What to expect during transition? You may start feeling tired, lagging, wondering what's going on and confused all the time. Don't worry this is part of the process until you arrive at your next destination. Your mind has to catch up with all that that has happened and what you endured while you were in the wilderness. This takes time and again don't rush it or be in a hurry to get into your new place, season and assignment.
  • What is the Lord doing in you while you are in transition? Preparing you for your promotion. He will refresh, rejuvenate, and recalibrate your heart while you transition out of the wilderness and also restore peace of mind.

Here are 10 practical steps to consider while in transition:
  1. Don't allow yourself to become overwhelmed in the process of transition by taking things on and putting more on your plate than you should
  2. Don't share everything with everyone, not everyone is called to go with you into your next place
  3. Guard your heart diligently as you can't just let anyone into your innermost being
  4. Let go of the people, places and mindsets that the Lord may be leading you to separate from as it is imperative to do so, so that you don't get stuck in transition
  5. The Lord will bring the right people alongside of you to navigate and propel you while you transition into your new season
  6. Don't stay stuck and rehearse the past, what went wrong, why didn't I do this, or why didn't I see that or reiterate things. Stay focused on what is ahead
  7. Keep a guard over your mouth and don't complain
  8. Stay in a place of gratitude and worship to the Lord 
  9. Stay in a place of spending time with the Lord and communion with the Lord staying close to His heart while you transition
  10. Lastly, be expectant because if you are in transition it usually means you are moving into a place of promotion
Some scriptures for you to mediate and renew your mind on:

Philippians 3:13-14 " 13 Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize of God's heavenly calling Christ Jesus.

2 Corinthians 5:17 "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!"

Isaiah 43:18 "Do not call to mind the former things; pay no attention to things of old.


Prayer for you to pray, declare and decree:

Lord, thank you for the taking me through the fire, through the processes, and learning what I needed to learn and understand so that I can teach and impart to others.  Thank you for expanding my understanding and giving me wisdom in the transition and in the new place. Thank you for moving me into my new place of promotion and upgrade. Thank you that you have already gone before me and prepared the way. That there is supernatural grace, strength, peace and increase coming over me now into my mind, my heart, my body, my soul and my spirit. Let the heavens be opened over me, my family, my job, my finances as I transition into a new realm of your glory. Let the clutter, chaos and confusion be removed from my atmosphere as your glory invades my atmosphere. Lord show me what is for now and what is for later. Bring the right alignments, connections and provisional resources that are needed for the new season. Let me be in sync with heaven and align into your perfect timing. If, there is anything out of alignment bring everything into alignment according to your will and your word. Lord, help me stay in a place of humility, honor and integrity as I step into my new season. Amen!

Let this word bless, encourage, bring insight, activate and impart into you for the month we are in and how to move forward into the new!

Grace and Love to you all!

~Lorilei

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